Friday, November 29, 2013

the obligatory thankful post

In lieu of annoying you with one thing I'm thankful for every day for a month, I really tried hard to think of one thing that I am most thankful for.  It's impossible.  Every time I try to think of something, it just seems so obvious and cliche.  So I tried to think of what I have that would be devastating to lose...that's also pretty much everything.  Not things like hot mocha choca vanilla soy grande lattes - those I could live without.

Food on my table.  What would it be like if I had to worry about where my kids' next meal would come from?

A roof over my head.  What would it be like if I had to worry about where we were going to sleep tonight?

My kids.  What would it be like if I just had to remember what life was like with them?  Or wonder what life would be like if I'd been able to have kids?

My husband.  A partner in this crazy life. What would life be like without this man to hug and co-parent with and confide in at the end of every day?

My family and in-laws. What in the world would life be like if our family gatherings were full of drama and tension?  I've been so fortunate with my family of origin as well as the one I was lucky enough to marry into.

My job.  I know all too well what it was like to have to leave to go to work on Thanksgiving.  Sad!  I am happy to have a job that not only do I enjoy, but one where I feel appreciated.  My agency is generous enough to pay me to spend time with my wonderful family.  Aside from that, I'm lucky that we don't have to worry if we have enough money to take our kids to the doctor. Or if we have to decide between that and buying groceries. Or paying the light bill.  In this day and age, I'm just thankful for my job.  Everything else is icing on the cake.

I'm just thankful. No one's life is perfect, but when I think about how much worse it could be, I'm thankful. I forgot to mention, my health. The health of my family members.  I have no idea what it would be like if myself or one of my kids were fighting a life-threatening or disabling illness.  Thankful.

My little turkeys had fun decorating cupcakes with Nana, Spencer, and Aunt Chelle.











hope your weekend was great,
~C~

3 comments:

  1. Just a fantastic perspective. Couldn't agree more..well, except maybe the job. Sigh....I will be thankful for when I find a new one! :O) And yay for turkey cupcakes!

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  2. These are the things I've been reminding Erin about lately. He stressed out about money and with Ethan due any time he's stressing again. I remind him that we have food, two cars with gas, a place to live, electric bill paid, clothing for both kids, family who lives close by. And so on.
    Looks like you guys had fun making those cute cupcakes!

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  3. Nothing annoying about being thankful and those cupcakes are adorable.

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